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3 things your brain is doing when you can't restthere's a name for rehearsing arguments in the showerprocrastination isn't laziness. it's your brain avoiding a feelingwalking into a room and forgetting why is a feature, not a glitchthe sunday dread has a mechanismwhy kindness makes you cry when cruelty doesn'twhy silence feels loud after a busy weekyour brain has a reason it replays embarrassing moments from years agowhy you remember every insult and lose every complimenttired but wired, explainedwhy small tasks feel impossible when you're overwhelmedthere's a reason you feel like a different person at nightwhy endings hurt even when you chose themwhy you can't relax until day three of the vacationwhy being perceived is exhaustingyour brain treats uncertainty like painwhy tidying your room actually changes your moodwhy music from your teens hits different foreverwhy you go quiet instead of asking for helpwhy scrolling in bed feels like rest but isn'tthe pre-sleep body checkthe fake phone checkthe doorway pause before knockingthe parking lot sitthe last-minute plan cancelthe closed-tab reliefthe rehearsed goodbyethe shower argument rehearsalthe almost-sent messagethe goodbye that keeps goingthe invisible pre-call throat clearthe reread before sendingthe sound-off room checkthe volume check before playingthe browser tab you keepthe seat you keep choosingthe drive that ends earlythe two-minute car resetthe unopened notificationthe tea you let go coldwhen you go completely stillthe fog feels like restyou keep watching the flameyou watch the steam riseyou can't see far aheadthe light through the curtainthe water goes completely flatyou stare until it blursthe far ridge disappearsyou look up mid-sentenceyou keep the room darkyou watch it until it's goneyou follow one drop downyou slow down near the endthe steam looks like nothingthe path bends out of sightthe ridge you keep checkingthe window blurs everything outsideyou keep re-reading his messagethe waves never actually stopthe mountains keep going greythe fog isn't hiding anythingthe light keeps moving on the wallthe mountain looks close todayI count the waves arrivingI sit with one small lightI keep scanning the ridgelineI keep the flame in viewI light it before I need itI wait for it to clearI watch one drop winI only trust the small flamethe curtain moves before I doI keep checking if it's still hotI wait for it to coolthe curtain never fully settlesI watch the water pool upthe water never finishesI can only see three stepsI watch the steam disappearI follow every curl of steamI walk when I can't decideI slow down in fogI watch for perfect stillnessI need the light softerI keep searching the mistI watch the rain repeatI watch waves when thoughts loopI watch the steam and spiralI let rain fill silenceI count the flickers twice